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F or every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness. Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.  Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time. People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be, .It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember sweetness.  We have no scar to show for happiness, We learn so little from peace  Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.    Happiness is not something ready made., It comes from your own actions. You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life. Wealth without work, Science without Knowledge , humanity without character, Pleasure without conscience ,Politics without principle,  Commerce without morality, Worship without sacrifice., will never bring you happiness. .    ...

By.K.N.Subramanyam   This afternoon I had a (very rare) nap. During that nap I had a lucid dream (most of which I no longer remember). As I was waking up, I was thinking about my dream and thought that it would be a great idea to write a list about dreams for the site. So, here are the   amazing facts about dreams.     People who become blind after birth can see images in their dreams. People who are born blind do not see any images, but have dreams equally vivid involving their other senses of sound, smell, touch and emotion. It is hard for a seeing person to imagine, but the body’s need for sleep is so strong that it is able to handle virtually all physical situations to make it happen. You Forget 90% of your Dreams Within 5 minutes of waking, half of your dream if forgotten. Within 10, 90% is gone.       Curiously, Robert Louis Stevenson came up with the story of Doctor Jeckyll and Mr. Hyde whi...

Some quotes have the ability to change your way of thinking. Here are some of them. By.K.N.Subramanyam   1. “I could not, at any age, be content to take my place in a corner on a easy chair and simply look on.   2. “Experience is a revelation in the light of which we renounce our errors of youth for those of age. 3. “The secret of genius is to carry the spirit of the child into old age, which means never losing your enthusiasm. 4. “I don’t believe one grows older. I think that what happens early on in life is that at a certain age one stands still and stagnates. 5. “A good old man Sir, He will be talking as a teen ager.  6. “It is well for the world that in most of us, by the age of thirty, the character has been set like plaster, and will never soften again.   7. “There is a fountain of youth: it is your mind, your talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of people you love. When you learn to...

Dear friends,  In your quiet moments, pay attention to your thoughts.  Because just maybe, the only thing that needs to shift in order for you to experience more happiness, more love, and more vitality, is your way of thinking. Here are 60 thought-provoking quotes that will help you to adjust your way of thinking.   If you don’t like something, change it.  If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. Don’t think of cost.  Think of value. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly. Too many people buy things they don’t need with money they don’t have to impress people they don’t know.   No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying. If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do ...

  The proper function of man is to live, not to exist.”  Far too often we travel through life on autopilot, going through the motions, accepting what is, and having every day pass like the one before it.  Everything seems relatively normal and comfortable, except that constant twitch in the back of your mind that’s saying, “It’s time to make some changes.” Here are 15 simple suggestions for those who want to break free from the mold and truly live more of their life – to experience it and enjoy it to the fullest, instead of settling for a mere existence.           Appreciate the great people and things in your life. – Sometimes we don’t notice the things others do for us until they stop doing them.  Don’t be like that.  Be grateful for what you have, who loves you, and who cares for you.  You’ll never know how much they mean to you until the day they’re no longer beside you.  ...

By.K.N.Subramanyam. “ Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”  Nothing could be closer to the truth.  But before you can begin this process of transformation you have to stop doing the things that have been holding you back. Here are some ideas to get you started: Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.  If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you.  You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.  Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth.  And remember, it’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on.  No, it won’t be easy.  There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly ha...

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